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1. Ok, so what's this 4play2nite thing all about?
4play2nite is a couple’s social networking community developed for adult couples where exploring, learning, and sharing with other couples like you is what it's all about. Real stories, real experiences, real couples, chatting, polls, blogs, videos, photos, and the exploration of sexuality! The site is dedicated to ensuring everyone is comfortable, safe, and to improve you and your partner's sex life.
Sign-up here! More: We are not a swinger’s site, dating site, or a porn site. 4play2nite is a community based on adults wanting to socialize about, well, adult things. As well as learn about ones sexuality and improve your sex life. Something like a Facebook® or Myspace® for adults. A bit intrigued? Have 'adult' questions? Want to share an experience? Want to explore, without being caught up in expensive or illegal porn sites? Want to be a bit naughty, but don’t know where or how to do it? If you answered YES to any of these questions, you’re in the right place!
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Yes. Singles are absolutely welcome. The membership and community are based on couples and improving your sex life’s. So, as a single person, you can still share and learn… You may even meet someone?
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*Future update-
Yes. Because the membership and community are based on couples, each membership actually has two profiles associated with the account. These profiles are linked however, not independent.
More: The two profiles are designed for couples. If 4play2nite finds that you are not a couple (i.e. sharing an account between two single people), we may take action, including warnings and potentially leading up to cancellation of your account.
4. Is this a Porn site?
NO, we are not a porn site. 4play2nite is a community of like minded people who want to share, learn, and explore their sexuality.
More: Have you ever wanted something more grown up than Facebook® or Myspace®, somewhere where adult couples mingle, discuss, share, and explore sexuality? A members only secure community? You have found the right place!
Our site is free to sign up and we currently have everything on the site open to everyone. All it requires is that you choose a unique profile name (alter-ego), provide a valid email address and your done!
That's right, everything is free. The membership fees are for those who wish to support our growth and site improvements. It is costly to run the site, make changes, and host photos and videos. We also limit our advertising, no pop-ups or overwhelming ads. As well as we make improvements regularly from feedback from you, the community. So please support us! The fees are kept very low!
Our monthly rate is ONLY $1.99 with the first month ONLY $.99 and for a limited time only, you can purchase a lifetime membership for ONLY $49.99! Our membership purchase is easy and 256bit encryption secure... Once you've signed up, you're ready to participate in the 4play2nite community.
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Thank you for your support!
Our premium membership plan is designed to insure everyone can participate and enjoy the community while still covering the costs of maintaining employees, fast web hosting, technical support, video functionality, etc.
More: Also, for a limited time you can purchase a lifetime membership for only $49.99!
The 4play2nite Team thanks you for the support.
7. Does 4play2nite use coupon codes?
We do issue coupons during special events or promotions.
8. Can I use PayPal?
Actually, you can! Even though we only accept Visa and Mastercard, you can use PayPal on any site. How you ask? Well, PayPal has a free plug-in, which let's you use your PayPal account on ANY website that accepts credit cards. It generates a card number whenever you need one! This is really a great tool, especially if you're a nervous nanny about using your personal credit card on the internet! Here is the link to PayPal's plug-in ->
https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/?cmd=xpt/Marketing/general/NewPayPalPlugin-outside
We take your privacy very serious, so your charges will appear on your statement from SJM holdings, Inc.
10. Help! The videos don't play at all! What do I do?
To make sure that we provide only the highest possible quality videos, you will need to download Flash 9.0 (or higher) to view videos. If you don't yet have Flash 10,
click here to download it.
To cancel your Premium Membership, go to 'Edit my profile' and click on the 'Membership/Payment' tab.
12. I see that you have a member’s area. Why should I become a member of 4play2nite?
While we do have some public accessible areas, like the lobby and the professionals biographies, the remainder of the site is limited to members only. This is for two reasons- First to insure anyone accessing the site is over 18. Secondly, we are a very unique website, with not a single direct competitor. There are swingers sites, porn sites, and dating sites; however, we are none of these. Our costs are substantially less than other sites! Being completely legit and not praying on peoples needs to 'hook up' (no matter the cost), our costing is based on supporting our technologies. Period. 4play2nite offers uploading and viewing of videos and photos, create and read blogs, create and read Fabulous-4play articles, fresh articles from our professionals updated regularly, participate in our forums section, rate and comment on content, create your own group and join others, your own profile (including your videos and photos), browse other member's profiles, send messages, contests, and much more!!
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Update: For a limited time, all of the site is available to all members. Paying members are supporting the site in making the best adult community site there is!
Once you've become a Premium member, you can upload as many videos as you like! All videos are uploaded inside groups. You can create your own group or join others! There is also a common "Community Videos" group which you can upload videos as well.
Inside all groups is a 'group links' shortcut tool on the right hand side of the page. Click on 'Videos' and you will be directed to that group's video page. From there you watch, vote and comment. The upload button is located prominently at the top of the page! Enjoy!!
14. What are "tags"?
When uploading content like videos, or when creating blogs and such, we ask that you include at least a few tags that describe your content the best; this will make it easier for the community to find. Tags are essentially keywords that will be associated with your content and will be referenced when members search for content they are looking for, including using the "Tag Clouds" throughout the site.
Example: Suggested tags for a video could include the scene setting (moonlight, backseat, sofa, etc), hair color or body type, the primary action in the scene (missionary, doggy style, etc) or any other keywords that you think might be relevant.
15. What kinds of photos and videos are unacceptable?
As we are a community website, it is important that we all respect certain rules of decent community behavior. As such, we reserve the right to remove any videos that contain content which is illegal, harassing, harmful, abusive, obscene or hateful. For more information, see our
Terms Of Use Agreement If you're into disgusting and/or illegal media, you are NOT cool. Please keep this content out of this community and seek help immediately.
We are trying to maintain a very comfortable and relaxed community. Everything runs through a filter looking for potentially illegal content, it can take up to 20 min for a comment to show up so please be patient.
18. Can I download videos from 4play2nite?
No we don't offer that feature at this time. We do this to protect our member’s privacy and to insure that no one takes your videos or pictures.
19. I enjoy the community, but I would rather not see X rated content.
*Future update-
We understand that some people may enjoy the articles, blogs, and sharing with other members stories and such, but do not want to see photos and videos of a 'strong sexual' nature. You can go to your personal settings on your profile page and change your content filter to an 'R' rating versus unrestricted. Note: We make every effort to maintain the proper rating for all content, but due to the large volume of member added content, there may be something that is labeled incorrectly. Please, if you find something which you think is labeled wrong, click the "report abuse" content button and let us know. Thank you.
20. What are Favorites?
Favorites is a tool where you can store content you like for easy retrieval later. Simply click the "Add to favorites" link next to the content and it will be automatically saved for you. * Currently only the forums section has this tool. Other content (Photos, videos, etc.) is scheduled for a future update.
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